Grief is not a problem to be solved. It's something you go through. That distinction is everything. A few weeks ago I published a post about AI resurrection. About the companies building services that let you have conversations with a chatbot trained on the texts, emails, and voicemails of someone who has died. About a man in our community who lost his wife of 44 years and told me quietly, like he was admitting something he wasn't sure he should, that he was thinking about us